About Me

My understanding of time, embodiment, and being human is intergenerational, rooted in lineage, Love, and the pulse of the ancestors. I come from people who endured the systemic relational ruptures of enslavement and colonialism - patterns of disconnection, mistrust, and abandonment. And yet, across generations, Love persisted. Our desire to reach for one another could never be extinguished. My journey in this body, in this lifetime, would not be possible without those ancestral efforts made in Love.

Along the way, I’ve encountered moments of profound spiritual awakening, experiences in which my body, my ancestors, and Spirit moved together in ecstatic remembrance. These experiences showed me, in the most embodied way, that healing, knowing, and transformation are inseparable from pleasure, joy, and the wisdom of lineage. They inform everything I do: the questions I ask, the spaces I hold, the practices I trust, and the relationships I nurture. You can read more about one of these experiences in my experimental narrative prose piece, published in Same Faces Collective.

Discovering myself as highly sensitive, neurodivergent, and fully embodied became a doorway back into the aliveness of my body, the currents of my knowing, and the ecstatic, sacred pleasure of my ancestral self. I now move with the awareness that the body, the heart, and the nervous system are portals, responsive and radiant, to wisdom, healing, and reunion with Life itself.

I believe that Love is the truth of who we are, and the truth to which we return when we dissolve and reintegrate everything that tried to make us forget. My work is about midwifing this remembrance and return, helping others encounter themselves fully, and guiding them through a cyclical process of dissolution, surrender, and reconstitution. A breaking open that is held by Love itself.

I am a bridge between the material and the spiritual, a holder of space for the seen and unseen. Through tender but piercing questions, sensory and extrasensory attunement, and compassionate care, I help people move closer to the root, to the truth, and to the pleasure of simply being alive.

I walk in dialogue with lineages of Black feminist thought, queer love, politicized somatics, and Earth-rooted spirituality. I honor the teachers, healers, collaborators, comrades, lovers, friends, ancestors, and guides who have supported me and whose wisdom continues to shape my work.

Lineage & gratitude

I move in dialogue with the lineages of Black feminist thought, queer love, politicized somatics, and Earth-rooted spirituality. I honor the numerous teachers, healers, collaborators, comrades, lovers, friends, ancestors, and spirit guides who have supported and sustained me on my journey.

A little more of my journey

I come from a background in the arts, higher education, and community-based facilitation. For over a decade, I worked with artists, students, and cultural workers to study and shape liberatory stories and practices. I achieved much. But no amount of accomplishment could soothe my deepest ache - the longing for a love that I thought was always just out of reach.

Discovering myself as highly sensitive and neurodivergent was the turning point. What once felt like “too much” became the doorway back to myself.

For years, I tried to toughen up, to numb my tenderness. But sensitivity has a way of speaking louder the more we ignore it. Eventually, I let the grief of separation break me open. And in that opening, I met myself. Spirit met me.

Through tending to trauma, reclaiming my voice, and remembering my worth, I came to see my sensitivity as my greatest gift. My way of feeling the emotional currents of others, the energy of a room, and the tender wounds behind even the harshest behaviors.

I now know: we are all vessels for Love.

And I understand that even the sharpest political theory cannot liberate us if we refuse to touch the body, the emotional, the relational. The deep repair that this time calls for means tending to the nervous system, opening the heart, and restoring our intimacy with Life, with Love, with Earth, with Spirit.

My journey has been a slow and sacred reweaving of body and mind, intellect and intuition. Less about external titles. More about internal wholeness.

MY METHODOLOGY

Everything I do centers relationship - to self, others, Spirit, the land, and the ancestors. Healing is somatic, relational, and spiritual. We reclaim our bodies, our desires, our erotic and ecstatic intelligence, and our capacity to know and be known.

My methodology blends:

  • Embodied practices: somatic attunement, intuitive movement, and sensory awareness

  • Ancestral and cosmological guidance: listening to the wisdom of lineage, Spirit, and the land

  • Creative and ritual practices: writing, ceremony, and pleasure-centered expression

  • Relational inquiry: deep dialogue, attunement, and co-creation

These practices are informed by my own lived experience, my study of African-centered epistemologies, and the ancestral, scholarly, and spiritual lineages I hold in trust. Each session, conversation, or facilitation is a portal to remembering your belonging and reclaiming the sacred pleasure, joy, and aliveness of your life force.

I’m trained in high sensory coaching through the Inluminance High Sensory Specialist program. I also have a background in trauma-responsive care and liberatory education. But, more than anything, I’m shaped by my own journey of returning to myself, and the relational containers that have held me in that process.

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KinSense Relational Coaching

We’ve been taught to numb, to shrink, to relate through fear. But that is not your truth. Your body, your pleasure, your longing, your joy - these are portals. Sacred technology for remembering who you are as an expansive, embodied being connected to your ancestors, your desires, and the life force that moves through everything.

KinSense is for those who are:

  • Healing from disconnection and old relational wounds

  • Longing to feel fully in body, heart, and spirit

  • Ready to remember themselves as the source of Love, vitality, and aliveness

What Happens in Our Work Together

In our sessions, we move together in a way that is both grounded and ecstatic. A dance between the material and the spiritual, the seen and unseen. Through presence, somatic attunement, intuitive insight, and compassionate care, we explore the patterns, desires, and ancestral echoes shaping your relational life.

The KinSense methodology is built around four key pillars:

  1. Embodied Remembrance – Your body carries knowledge and wisdom. Through breath, movement, voice, ritual, and sensory attunement, we reconnect you to your erotic, ecstatic, and somatic life force as a source of insight and liberation.

  2. Healing Through Relational Presence – We attend to the patterns and wounds shaping your relational life. In this space, your relational self is witnessed, supported, and gently guided toward deeper trust and intimacy with yourself and with others.

  3. Ancestral and Lineage Integration – Healing happens in relationship with those who came before us. We call on your ancestral intelligence, spiritual guides, and relational lineages to support your reclamation, transformation, and embodiment of personhood.

  4. Creative and Spiritual Activation – Joy, pleasure, and creativity are portals to insight and liberation. Through ritual, creative expression, ecstatic practices, and spiritual attunement, we cultivate new ways of being in relationship with your body, your life force, and your world.

In my own journey, I’ve been guided through profound spiritual experiences that opened my body, mind, and heart to new ways of knowing and being. These experiences inform my practice, helping me to hold space for the transformative, ecstatic, and relational processes that emerge when we reconnect with our life force, our ancestors, and our deepest truths.

The KinSense Approach

My practice is co-creative and rooted in Love - not love as sentiment, but, in the words of June Jordan, Love as lifeforce. This is the Love that wants to move us all, guiding us toward wholeness through interconnection.

When we allow this Love to flow through us, we can better embody the personal and collective liberation that we desire.

I bring lived and professional experience supporting those who are:

  • LGBTQIA2S+

  • Polyamorous / ENM

  • Neurodivergent / highly sensitive

  • Disabled / chronically ill

  • Black, Indigenous, and other racialized communities

  • Survivors of interpersonal violence

And if you don’t see yourself reflected here but feel drawn to this work, you are welcome, too.

Testimonials

"Amissa brings such gentle somatic and trauma-informed wisdom to her coaching that guided me towards remembering my inner resilience and power, as well as my deep capacity for healing and change. My heart felt expanded by her thoughtful questions and I had so many beautiful epiphanies."

“Before working with Amissa, I felt disconnected from myself, my family, and friends. Through her gentle guidance, exercises and tools, and spiritual insight, I’m relearning how to care for my body, mind, and soul. I’ve gained confidence and clarity. I truly cannot recommend Amissa enough.”

“I’m so grateful to have been supported by Amissa. She listened with an abundance of empathy and curiosity and gently challenged my thinking, sparking new awarenesses and opportunities for deeper reflection. We talked about things that weren’t easy, which was only possible given the safety she created and sustained. Even after the session, I’m still having new realizations. Amissa’s guidance has ultimately allowed me to be softer to myself; we together grappled with my challenge to be truly authentic with others, and Amissa helped me be compassionate towards a part of me who is simply looking to be accepted, instead of admonished. Thank you, Amissa!”

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Creative Reflections and Transmissions

My creative work is another way that I love the world, by sharing the stories, questions, and awakenings that emerge from my own journey of healing and remembrance. I create in dialogue with ancestors, Spirit, and the unseen currents that weave us together. My work is less authored than it is received, gifts I’m asked to carry, interpret, and share with others as part of a long lineage of remembrance.

Youtube: amissaloves

My YouTube channel is a living archive of my awakening through Love.

Here I share stories and discoveries for those walking the path of both/and: the personal and the political, the internal and the external, the material and the spiritual.

It’s a space for sensitive souls drawn to politicized somatics, embodied spirituality, and radical relationships. If you’re committed to your own healing as an interdependent part of our collective healing, this channel is for you.

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Writing

My writing explores Black femme interiority, radical worldbuilding, and intergenerational kinship between the material and spiritual realms.

Selected Works

  • Heart Like an Ocean (forthcoming, Meridians Journal, Spring 2026)

  • Her Own Things (African Voices Magazine, Fall 2019)

  • Breaths (Playwrights’ Center of San Francisco, Best Plays of 2019)

  • Refusal of the Call (PlayGround SF Reading Series, 2020)

  • Breathing Body of Water (Same Faces Collective, March 2025)

  • On This Bridge (Pensive Journal, April 2025)

  • Contributor, The Harlem Renaissance: An Encyclopedia of Arts, Culture, and History (Bloomsbury, 2026)

Ongoing

For raw, personal musings, subscribe to my Substack, the woman who feels everything. There I write about the connections between my political, creative, sexual, and spiritual awakenings as a radically loving Black queer neurodivergent femme.

I also contribute to UNSPOKEN, a collaborative Substack by women of color, offering diverse perspectives from a fierce femme formation that I’m honored to be part of.

Work with Me

Whether one-on-one, in a group, or with your organization, my work is about returning to Love as life force, ancestral guidance, and the thread that animates our relationships and practices. Every offering - relational coaching, workshops, speaking, or consulting - emerges from a lineage of praxis, of scholarly and embodied knowing, as well as my own journey of reclaiming the senses and the soul as portals for transformation. Together, we can meet patterns and wounds with curiosity and care, open space for healing, and invite the Love that already flows within you, your body, and your community to move more fully.

Relational Coaching

Through KinSense, I guide clients to:

·       Reclaim sensitivity as a superpower of attunement and perception

·       Heal relational wounds and ancestral patterns

·       Rediscover themselves as the source of their own Love, pleasure, and life force

Each session is co-creative, trauma-responsive, and deeply embodied — offering space to explore patterns, meet yourself with tenderness and curiosity, and reconnect with the joy, erotic power, and ancestral guidance that shape your deepest truth.

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Speaking & Workshops

I speak and facilitate on topics that ignite transformation. Each session can be co-created to meet the needs of your group, organization, or community. Potential topics include:

·       Radical self-care as liberation through body, mind, and soul

·       Love as lifeforce, ancestral guidance, and leadership practice

·       Foundations of consent and relational integrity

·       Healing patterns in relational and organizational systems

Whether a keynote, small group, or bespoke workshop, I bring depth, clarity, embodied insight, and ancestral attunement, creating spaces where participants can experience themselves as vessels of Love, agency, and transformation.

Consulting and Organizational Support

I consult with organizations, collectives, and relational formations ready to embody liberation in practice. Together, we can:

·       Illuminate relational patterns in your structures and communities

·       Identify opportunities for repair, reintegration, and generative change

·       Design practices rooted in Love, embodied presence, and collective attunement

Whether a one-off consultation or ongoing collaboration, I bring relational expertise, ancestral and lived wisdom, and a body-centered, love-centered perspective, helping your community to thrive, transform, and remember its wholeness.

 

Fill out the contact form below, or contact me at amissa@kinsensecoaching.com, to start the conversation about working with me.